Why do men never put in as much effort as women? I’ve really yet to discover why.. I’m sick of having conversation after conversation with a guy and an xbox, or IPad. Then when you tell them that it pisses you off, they just dont get it and continue to not care?
Your the only one who makes an effort to make plans? Your the only one who suggests to do something together? You are the one going out your way to constantly make the biggest effort to make him happy? You are the one that will phone HIM first. You are the one that will make the effort with all his friends, and get treated like dirt by them and continue to put up with it, for HIM. Your the one that will drop everything for him, even if its just your laptop? Your the one that puts him before yourself.
He’s the one that puts himself first. That would rather play a game than reply to your text. That will sit on Skype to you when YOU skype HIM and continue to play the Xbox. That will let you walk home alone at night so he can watch a film. That wont ever suggest to take YOU out for once. He’s the one that doesnt consider your feelings when you are standing there, crying, and telling him how you feel. He’s the one that will be sarcastic to you. He’s the one that ‘wont jump over hurdles for you’. He’s the one that YOU obsess over. He’s the one that YOU wait up for at night. He’s the one that YOU will do anything for.
And YOU are the one that comes second.
Fuck men, and start thinking of yourself. Because they wont.